Friday, November 26, 2010

Who says you can't do it?



“I wasn’t expecting you to be good anough to that.”
Don’t you feel like showing your middle finger to such people who have don’t know you well enough to know your abilities and still they think they have the right to expect something from you?
Don’t feel provoked when you are under rated?
If the answer is yes, join the club.
Today, for the first time, I am blogging my actual thoughts.
After overperforming for a very long time, I am still considered the underdog.
Has it happened to you as well?
What options presented them to me at that moment were -:
1)      To run away from such people
2)      Tell them on their faces that only my friends can make a guess about my abilities and they never make a wrong one.
3)      Or shut up and prove them wrong again and again.
In my case, I chose the third option. No I am not someone perfect. But this is not ethical but entirely selfish. Such a humiliation can provide you with enough energy and motivation to do everything that such people don’t expect from you.
And believe me I have tried the second one a lot of times. It doesn’t help you but since you have given vent to all your anger, you may fail at the job they expect you to fail and then they would laugh at you.
And about the second one, I have tried it a couple of times and the world doesn’t even bother whether you are there or not. They would have a lot of replacements. Winners are those who stand there under all circumstances and finally win for themselves enough critics that they can laugh at them.
But still I find the world an imperfect place to learn something without being compared.
But it is the perfect place to learn how to remain focussed even under so many defects.
And as I learned in material science, these are the defects that lend strength to something.
After all, who says you can't do it?
If anyone does, he doesn't have a right to judge you.
Among all these undesirable events, finding The way out of reality………..


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